NO REASON TO BE RUDE
Since the speech of GRETA THUNBERG on the last UN CLIMATE SUMMIT at the end of September 2019 in New York, USA, media are filled with images and footage of GRETA THUNBERG speech. showing her face and expression. Many other young activists follow and try to copy and frequently fail.
Some advice to do the same to be heard, but I do ask myself, why I should change the behavior which I was taught and apply for more than 47 years of my life. Behavior which says, you do not have to be rude to express yourself to positive or negative topics.
You do not have to raise your voice, to be heard.
I do agree and live upon this wise advice given to me by my mother who spends all her life teaching children in kindergarten, I am following the words of my granddad who teched students up to the age of 75 and now being 96 is still a wice and generous man a role model of knowledge and experience. I am following the example of my father who spends all his life working in the black coal mines doing the hardest physical work all the time with a smile on his face.
There is no reason to be rude and rude to become a new standard as the politicians worldwide try to do delivering own example.
Yesterday I spend half of my working day with a visitor from India, her name was Shila and she visited me together with another great lady Jana. We discuss how we can cooperate to change the world together.
It was fruitful, we did not agree on all topics, but no one from us would take raise his or her voice to be heard.
One of the topics was the presence of the heads of states in the same UN CLIMATE SUMMIT in New York mentioned above.
Shila mentioned how proud she was on the speech of Narendra Modi, the Prime minister of India, one of the speeches I heard and almost the only one which was different, by not blaming others for the situation but delivering examples of true changes happening in his country.
She was not only proud of his speech, but on the action, he did in his life for the country and its people, starting from the poor ones.
I have mentioned how I shame for the speech of Andrej Babiš, the Czech Prime Minister, who shared lies blaming all around for the evil, forgetting he is himself being investigated in multiple frauds, illegal activities, taking care for nobody else than himself, his family and the rich ones.
No matter if we have been happy or angry, we speak with calm voice delivering true meaning by our carefully and sensitively selected words and Jana adds her emotions coming from the core of her body and mind.
Each of us, every single one, we are unique, we are different and I do not speak about being female or male, old or young, doctor or patient, I am speaking about being a HUMAN in its complexity.
I am not sure which ground stones of social behavior have been delivered GRETA and her sister by their parents, but it looks like these have been very different than the ones delivered to myself.
In the course of history, we have seen both to be applied. The rude, loud and screaming ones deliver usually unhappiness and disaster to many living themself in fortune until the end of their lives. The silent ones changing the lives of billions to better, remaining the same as before the change.
GRETA THUNBERG and her followers ask SOMEBODY TO ACT
I am acting first, offering the possibility to be followed, delivering advice and tools needed to deliver results better than the ones I achieved. It makes me happy. After delivering result I see the best time to share.
30 years ago I started to write my thoughts, 17 years ago finished the first book and yesterday I was given feedback telling me, I did not change in all these years following the same aim. The difference is only that I have learned to express myself more clearly finding the common language of efficiency needed to be understood.
It is everyone's decision to choose, I make the choice decades ago and I am happy about my choice.
